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 <BR><hr><font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> :<br>http://dongresin.katgyrl.com/archives/001129.html<br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 6:24:30 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> Froupie:<br>gday<br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 8:38:21 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> Decoy:<br>the best advice i can think of for bela is to mostly hang out with people who are after the same things in life as you are. for example there's nothing easy about having a good marriage if you have people constantly telling you how much marriage sucks.<br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 9:12:30 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> Decoy:<br>its not much advice, but there you go.<br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 9:13:16 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> Froupie:<br>hello<br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 9:15:23 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> bela:<br>Hey.  I don't know whats going to happen.  Now tom is talking about selling the house again and I think it may be a good idea.  I don't think I want that between us when I leave.  I think maybe we sell so we can leave and have nothing to do with each other because I'm sort of afraid whats going to happen.  Hes so fucking angry with me I don't know what he'll do, I'm sort of afraid.   I have to find an apt asap.  Aah, its going to be so hard with the dogs.  I don't know, everyone keep your fingers crossed for me.   I know now I'm doing the right thing. <br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 9:29:54 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> Froupie:<br>yeah things change even with the best of intentions. <br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 9:35:34 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> Froupie:<br>i hope you find a nice apt, poor dawgies.<br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 9:36:39 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> Froupie:<br>you'll be ok financially wont you?<br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 9:37:52 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> bela:<br>No, I doubt it but thats ok. <br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 9:38:25 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> Froupie:<br>starting over is tough but if its the right thing its worth it. you'll be happier in the long run. <br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 9:40:30 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> Chewing Wax:<br>Good morning<br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 9:41:29 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> Froupie:<br>my bees ahve taken flight...<br><br>http://uk.geocities.com/devotchka89/<br><br><br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 9:43:06 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> Froupie:<br>have<br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 9:43:16 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> Froupie:<br>at least if you sell then you'll have some money to start over bela<br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 9:45:19 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> bela:<br>I need some legal advice. <br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 10:03:07 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> Froupie:<br>definitely<br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 10:28:11 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> Chewing Wax:<br>I'll be your lawyer. What you do want to know?<br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 10:38:02 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> Chewing Wax:<br>Actually, that's not such a good idea.<br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 10:38:21 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> bela:<br>I don't know.  I mean, if I leave, without filing for a "legal separation" he could take the house from me and say I abandoned it or something right?   I'll forfeit my rights to my<br>%50 - Tom is acting so insane I'm afraid he would screw me over.  I don't know, I didn't think I would have to, but I'm thinking I may have to get something legal.     <br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 10:40:16 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> Froupie:<br>you definitely should. chewie you have to bela's legal advice.<br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 10:41:19 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> Froupie:<br>people can get very mean during breakups.<br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 10:42:53 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> Chewing Wax:<br>New York is an equitable distribution State. It's not like Califorina where the wife gets half, but it's a fair deal, so they would take into account how much you contributed. Also, is your name on the deed? Were you married when you bought the house? <br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 10:44:34 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> Chewing Wax:<br>No. I'm not allowed to practice law until I catch up on my continuting legal edumacation. I could get in trouble and bela could go to jail for accepting said advice.<br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 10:47:45 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> Chewing Wax:<br>Technically, none of that is completely true.<br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 10:48:03 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> bela:<br>Heh.  Yeah, both of us own the house.   <br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 10:48:49 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> bela:<br>I'm starting to panic.   <br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 10:49:04 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> Chewing Wax:<br>I'm pretty sure he can't do anything with the house without you. He can't sell it without your signature. You could move to Guam if  you wanted to. You still own half. <br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 10:50:38 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> Chewing Wax:<br>That house is the least of your worries.<br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 10:51:28 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> Chewing Wax:<br>I really need coffee<br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 10:51:51 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> Froupie:<br>it cant be a nice atmosphere, thats horrible<br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 10:52:24 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> Chewing Wax:<br>Think of all the absentee landlords. You don't have to live in a house to own it.<br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 10:52:54 am)<BR> </font> <hr>
<font size=-3 face=tahoma,arial> Chewing Wax:<br>Awful. Tom is pissed off.<br>(Thu Feb 26, 2004 - 10:53:13 am)<BR> </font> <hr>