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Detlef Sping:
like these damn monkeys.
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 11:44:20 am)

Detlef Sping:
in a way.
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 11:44:52 am)

Froupie:
i'd prefer a monkey.
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 11:45:06 am)

Detlef Sping:
heh.
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 11:46:10 am)

Froupie:
well, maybe not actually. come to london bela, i'll take you out and get you pissed on tequila and rum.
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 11:46:30 am)

Detlef Sping:
You may wake up and find out it was just a bad dream.
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 11:47:11 am)

Detlef Sping:
mmm tequila
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 11:47:43 am)

Froupie:
i dont know, does marriage ever really work out? everyone i know who got married is now divorced.
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 11:47:53 am)

Detlef Sping:
Who gets to look after the animals?
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 11:48:30 am)

Detlef Sping:
With the right partner marriage is awesome, right wax?
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 11:49:20 am)

Detlef Sping:
With the right partner, and tequila.
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 11:51:12 am)

Detlef Sping:
and less monkeys.
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 11:51:45 am)

Froupie:
tequila and a good book. that gives me an idea.
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 11:51:50 am)

Detlef Sping:
you might just need to have a break away and get back together later after the wild lap banjo playing.
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 11:53:45 am)

Detlef Sping:
I need a headband.
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 11:56:58 am)

Froupie:
you do?
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 11:57:21 am)

bela:
I thought he was the right partner and in some ways he is, but in some ways not. Its complicated and I feel pretty terrible but you get one life and you have to give yourself a fair shake in it. I don't know. I think I'm doing the right thing. Its hard though when you still really love and care about the person. I don't know, I may get an apt with my friend Julia who is splitting from her husband.
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 11:57:22 am)

Detlef Sping:
You get lots of lives.
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 11:58:15 am)

bela:
He wants to sell the house but I don't see the point. Its going to be worth so much more money in a few years and theres not reason for both of us to leave - we may as well continue the investment and then the cats can stay there and he can take kirby on teh weekends or something. I'll take Franco and Buster. This is so devastating I try not to think too much about it its too painful.
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 11:59:20 am)

Froupie:
if you have these doubts you should definitely give yourself some space and take it from there.
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 11:59:51 am)

Detlef Sping:
get it in writing, bela.
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 12:00:38 pm)

bela:
I should right? I know I'm doing the right thing. i don't know, maybe I need a break. I just don't know. He keeps calling me.
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 12:01:27 pm)

Chewing Wax:
I'm getting sad
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 12:02:14 pm)

Froupie:
you need some time and space by yourself to go through it all. go stay with a friend or something and see.
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 12:02:34 pm)

Detlef Sping:
just take a break.
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 12:02:51 pm)

Detlef Sping:
I'm weeping.
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 12:03:10 pm)

bela:
Yeah, I was thinking of getting something in writing for him and me. Hes afraid I may fall under the manipulation of some guy later who will try to get me to sue for the whole house or something which is totally insane. Shoot me if I become a greedy person that would fuck someone over. When we sell, i'm going to get back the $15,000 I put into it, Tom will take his $80,000 downpayment and we'll split the rest 60 - 40 or something. I think he should take more than me hes put so much work into that house. Its really a great place.
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 12:03:45 pm)

Froupie:
honestly, i stayed with the wrong guy for too long and i was utterly depressed for two whole years, i mean in the depths of depression. my life totally changed when we broke up. so glad i never married him.
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 12:03:54 pm)

Froupie:
take a break, thats good advice. i think the boys need tissues.
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 12:05:12 pm)

bela:
I've been questioning things for awhile now and not feeling %100 there and now that its really happening I feel like I just want things to be the way they were years ago. But its not going to happen.
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 12:05:40 pm)

Detlef Sping:
Dont sell the house, rent it out and form a small ltd company to administer the property. that way you both get money each month and keep the property.
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 12:05:44 pm)

bela:
I want him to stay, I'm the one that is checking out, he shouldn't be put through this, he loves that house he should stay. Our mortgage contract says we can't sell for 7 years anyway so its only been like 4 so we may get heavily penalized for that. Whatever, someone is coming over today to look at the house to tell us how much we could get for it - just to have it done.
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 12:08:52 pm)

Detlef Sping:
It may sound nutty but, real estate is a great investment. You'll feel sorry for selling it later when this all blows over.
(Tue Feb 24, 2004 - 12:09:37 pm)